Letter
from Steve Antonunccio to Cynthia Lawrence
Thanks
to: ladolcevita_italianinelmondo@yahoogroups.com
Cynthia
Lawrence is one of the premiere Sopranos in the world, who will be
"starring"?
in a Colorado Opera Concert on September 19.
However,
the Concert Impresario could not resist also engaging Dominic
Chianese,
"JR" of 'The Sopranos', and "exploiting" his Infamy to sell
tickets.
Chianese has questionable singing skills.
Further,
the Impresario is promoting the Concert almost exclusively with
Posters
and Advertising "connecting" it to 'The Sopranos'
Therefore,
not only is Opera, one of the greater contributions of Italians
being
"associated" with garbage, which is infuriating, but equally
disconcerting
is that Ms. Lawrence is being relegated to being a "second
banana"
to a mere supporting member of an amoral and bigoted TV series.
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Subject:
September 19th Concert
Date:
Sun, 19 Aug 2001 22:14:55 -0400
From:
Steve Antonunccio <anton1492@home.com>
To:
Cynthia Lawrence <Cynthia@CynthiaLawrence.com>
Dear Cynthia,
I felt it important that
I take my appeal directly to you. Since you
are one of the premiere
sopranos in the world, I have grave concerns
about the appropriateness
of the concert you will be performing on
September 19th in Denver
with Dominic Chianese. I don't know if you
are fan of the television
show "The Sopranos" or not, but as an
Italian American who is
concerned about our culture, I think you
should understand the complexity
of associating a person of your fine
ability with a program like
this.
As you may or may not know,
"The Sopranos" has been universally
condemned by all of the
major Italian American cultural organizations
in this country because
of its ugly stereotyping of Italian Americans
and for its graphic violence.
Both the Sons of Italy and the
National Italian American
Foundation, which is represented by millions
of Italian Americans, have
condemned this series since it began three
years ago.
As you might imagine, Italian
culture is very important to me and most
Italian Americans, and Italian
opera is one thing that we
can point to with great
pride. It is a very sacred part of our
culture that has not be
blighted by this ugly stereotyping and
fascination with organized
crime that "The Sopranos" has promoted. By
combining these two things
into one concert and promotion, I could not
think of a more unholy marriage
in terms of respect and celebration of
our beautiful culture.
I don't know if you have
seen the newspaper ads for this concert, but
in the first ad you are
promoted at the bottom of the page in very
small print. In the
new ads I saw this weekend, they do have a
postage stamp size picture
of you at the bottom of the ad. However,
both ads are completely
dominated by "Uncle Junior" Dominic Chianese
in a menacing stare and
the "O" in the word Sopranos is replaced with
a target and cross hairs
representing the use of guns. It is bad
enough that this series
has blighted forever a beautiful Italian word
like the word "Soprano,"
but they are going a step further by directly
connecting opera to a television
show that celebrates gun violence.
Please understand that I
have nothing but respect your talent and work
ethic. It is easier to become
a professional football player than it
is to become a world class
opera star. There are 1300 professional
football players, and only
a handful of opera stars with your talent.
So few people can
reach the level that you have reached and I'm sure
it took a lot of sacrifice,
practice, support from a family who loves
and cares about you, and
hard work. To me, I find it insulting, that
a character actor, who became
famous by playing a murderous Italian
American mobster, would
get top billing over a world class opera star.
What did he do to
put in his dues as a singer? He is just a notch
above being a lounge singer
in his ability. Not only does Dominic
Chianese get top billing,
but he completely dominates the ad with his
face and menacing stare
in an ad designed, not to attract opera
lovers, but to attract those
people who watch a television series that
promotes racism and violence.
I am sure you have played in many sold
out halls that didn't require
you to have a gimmick to promote your
beautiful gift.
Even if you could care less
about Italian American culture, I would
hope you would have some
sensitivity to the culture of
violence that "The Sopranos"
promotes. By its very name and "handgun"
logo, "The Sopranos" teaches
young people that you can solve your
problems with a gun.
It is one of the most violent programs on
television and does not
represent the responsible and legal use of
firearms. In fact,
you can pretty much count on in every episode that
an Italian American is going
to take that gun out of the logo and blow
the brains out of another
Italian American. Hardly something most
civilized people would want
to associate with Italian Americans or
Italian opera.
I know you have roots in
Colorado and my daughter just graduated from
a Colorado high school,
a high school very similar to a suburban high
school like Columbine.
Although she never experienced the tragedy of
Columbine, she did have
to deal with two good friends being murdered
by hand guns in the past
two years. Our whole family dealt with her
grief, and I'm afraid I
don't find anything entertaining about the
violence in "The Sopranos"
and the Italian American defamation it
promotes. I find it
equally offensive that a concert like this would
happen almost in the shadow
of Columbine high school.
If you don't care about Italian
American defamation, or a series that
promotes gun violence, how
do you feel about misogyny? In last years
season they showed one Italian
American woman being graphically raped
and they also showed an
Italian American man beating to death his
stripper girlfriend with
his bare hands. Now some people might watch
this type of graphic violence
and understand how destructive it is,
but I guarantee you there
are people out there who are watching this
brutal hatred toward women
and actually enjoying it and copying this
kind of dreadful behavior.
This kind of hatred toward women is the
trademark of "The Sopranos."
From the very beginning, Tony Soprano's
Italian American Mother
tried to have him killed. All the women in
his life are either pathetic,
controlling, or evil. His mother, his
wife, his sister, and his
daughter make his life completely miserable.
Now I'm not saying
Italian Americans or my family are perfect, but my
Mother never tried to have
me killed. I have two daughters, a wife, a
sister, and a Mother who
I love and respect...and believe me, my
Father taught us from a
very early age that the most cowardly thing a
man could do was hit a woman.
In my Italian American family, respect
for women is one of the
most important things we learn at a very early
age.
Please reconsider your participation
in this concert. I would hope
you would understand how
destructive it is to associate something as
beautiful as opera with
a television series that is racist, violent,
and treats women with such
little regard.
Sincerely,
Steve Antonuccio
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