Saturday, February 10, 2007

In Italy, a National Sex Scandal, Without Actual Sex or Actual Scandal

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In Italy, a National Sex Scandal, Without Actual Sex or Actual Scandal.....    But, a Lot of Drama!!!! :)

 

In Italy a Sex Scandal is soaring "Opera", in the US it is tawdry "Peep Show" .

 

An enormously interesting observation: So successful was this "scandal" that opponents of Berlusconi now accuse him of orchestrating it for political advantage. :) :) :)

 

 

 

The Italians Know How To Do It Right

 

Thursday Thoughts

By Maggie Gallagher:

The Philadelphia Evening Bulletin 

February 8,2007

 

I want an Italian sex scandal.


In Italy, they know how to have a national sex scandal without any a) actual sex or b) actual scandal. And yet the Italian version ends up so much more deliciously, scandalously erotic than the earnest American version.


Take Gavin Newsom, for example. He's the young, glam Catholic mayor of San Francisco who first burst into the national news by unilaterally licensing thousands of gay couples to marry in San Francisco, contrary to state law - which even the California Supreme Court couldn't quite approve, but no matter. He and his beautiful wife, now an anchor for Fox News, became the new Dem power couple ("The New Kennedys" slobbered the Harper's Bazaar photo spread). Their brief, bicoastal marriage faded to a quiet divorce in 2005, but the young, handsome and definitely not-gay bachelor mayor's solo glitterati quotient soared anyway: Seventy percent of San Franciscans in recent polls said they wanted to re-elect the mayor this November.


How can a bachelor mayor have a sex scandal these days, anyway? It was once famously said of a Louisiana Democrat that unless he was found in bed "with a live boy or a dead girl," his re-election was certain. Seeing as Newsom is the mayor of San Francisco, I would have thought his scandal possibilities were even more limited, but somehow the boy-mayor has managed.


Give the man credit for the clearest, most comprehensive confession ever seen on the American political stage: "I want to make it clear that everything you've heard and read is true, and I am deeply sorry about that."


"Everything" in this case includes having sex with his secretary, who was also the wife of his good friend and campaign manager. We know all this because the secretary/wife felt obliged to confess her sins as part of her alcohol rehab journey. This week, the mayor announced his own outpatient alcohol rehab journey is just beginning.
The thing about American sex scandals is that they seem so puritanical: so grim, so unpleasant, so, well, tawdry. I suppose it's good for public morals.


In Italy, they do things differently. There, when the wife of the former (and perhaps future) Italian prime minister Silvio Berlusconi sent her husband a public letter demanding an apology for his attentions to other women, it was also all over the news. ("If I weren't married, I would marry you immediately," the 70-year-old Berlusconi reportedly told one woman at a VIP party after a TV awards ceremony broadcast.) Veronica Lario, 50, a former actress, told her husband: "I see these statements as damaging my dignity. To both my husband and the public man, I therefore demand a public apology, since I haven't received any privately." She pointed out: "I have faced the inevitable contrasts and the more painful moments that a long conjugal relation entails with respect and discretion."


At this point, I'm trying to imagine how, say, an American presidential candidate would be advised to respond if such a letter from his wife was published in The New York Times. What would Dick Morris do?


I don't know, but probably not this: "Forgive me, I beg you. And take this public show of my private pride giving in to your fury as an act of love. One of many," wrote Berlusconi in a public response.


Nobody went into rehab. Instead, his wife withdrew to a convent for three days to contemplate her reaction to his public apology. (She ultimately decided to accept.)


So successful was this "scandal" that opponents of Berlusconi now accuse him of orchestrating it for political advantage.


Sigh. If we cannot have dignity in high office, could we demand a higher quality of drama, please?

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