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Gripping her rosary beads in her hands, Tonianne Piscitello, 11, prayed
with
City spotlight The statue of St. Joseph, the patron saint of orphans and foster father
to
Piscitello joined a half dozen other people Thursday night to say the
rosary
"It took forever to learn the rosary," said Piscitello, a fifth-grader
at
Piscitello's Nonni, or grandmother, Margaret Giacalone, who died when
It is one of the holiest days in the Sicilian community and is a day
for
For many, today is a day of thanksgiving for pleas answered and a chance
to
This year, with the local fishing fleet's future in question following
new
In her first novena, the traditional nine days of prayer, Margaret Giacalone
When he recovered, Giacalone promised to keep an altar with fresh flowers
And she did, until her death in February 1997, a month shy of her 50th-year
Her children and grandchildren are now keeping Giacalone's promise. Giacalone's daughter, Frances Ferrante, 54, said her mother's dying
wish was
"She looked at me and she pointed to me and said, ~'You do St. Joseph,'"
The family did better than simply carry on. They constructed a
It took about a year and a half for Joseph Ferrante, Frances' husband,
to
The Ferrantes recently purchased the 4-foot tall statue of St. Joseph
that
"He'd get lost in there, so we got the statue that was 4 feet so it
would
The St. Joseph statue stands on the top of the three-tiered altar and
is
It is surrounded by yellow, pink, purple and white flowers as well as
a
Next to the altar is a photograph of Margaret in front of an equally
The Ferrantes' altar will be admired today as they open their doors
to
Meals typically consist of homemade spaghetti and sauce and may also
include
Before the cooking begins, priests visit different houses to bless the
flour
Many believe the open-door feast around the city recalls St. Joseph's
pursuit
Each guest is given three gifts before he or she leaves -- a small loaf
of
Yesterday, the Ferrantes gave out the bread, oranges and lemons following
a
Today, the family's altar room will hold two large tables with a cornucopia
"Sometimes it's so crowded, I have to stay out in the other room," said
The Ferrantes said that a number of people in the community offered
them food
One fisherman, despite having not caught much fish in the past year,
donated
"It has been unreal this year," said Frances. The first night of the novena drew 35 people and Tonianne has been at
the
Vito Piscitello, Tonianne's father, said he's celebrated St. Joseph's
novena
"It's more of a hand-me-down tradition," he said, adding there are about
30
Around the city, other groups have been gathering for the past nine days. At Katie Fontana's home at 71 Washington St., about 15 older women gathered
Across the street, Katie's sister, Antoinette, 79, and her husband,
Gus
Particularly powerful this year was a Mass held at 26-year-old Gus
The Rev. Eugene Alves from Our Lady of Good Voyage Church said Mass
in the
Alves can't help but notice a difference in the feast that has meant
so much
Some agree, saying the tradition of St. Joseph is fading. Joseph Virgilio of Virgilio's Italian Bakery said the store used to
take
Virgilio, 58, said about 80 percent of the families that celebrated
don't
"I don't think it's dying," he said, but added while older generations
"It's something that's been instilled in us all our lives," he said.
"It's a
While there are some signs the tradition is passing, there are also
many
During Mass at St. Ann Church on Sunday, a group of junior high students
A male playing St. Joseph was seated and nearly 20 of his friends shook
his
"I don't think Joseph had it so good," said Harrison, smiling. Ann-Margaret Ferrante said that even today, she can feel the presence
of her
"She had such a love for God and such a belief in him all of us got
her love
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